Kids. So innocent. So loving. And so…well, I believe the Oak Ridge Boys say it best with these few simple words:
When you look down in those trusting eyes
That look to you, you realize
There’s a love that you can’t buy
Thank God for kids…
The ugly truth of the matter is that every day children all over the world are abducted, abused, battered, beaten, raped, and killed. Unfortunately, the dishonor and shame associated with abuse at the hand of a loved one is often so great that victims have a tendency to not report the crimes. As a result, many, if not most, crimes against children remain hidden from public view, and from the eyes of law enforcement officials (only 12% of child abuse cases are reported).
Here’s an indication of just how bad the problem really is. Hold on, because it isn’t pretty.
- Children (under the age of 18) account for 67% of all sexual assault victimizations reported to law enforcement. Remember, many, if not most, cases aren’t reported. 34% of those cases involve children under the age of 12. Children under 6 years account for 14% of all reported cases.
- A little over half of ALL children (530 per 1,000) have experienced a physical assault. Of those children, the highest number of assaults occurred on children between 6 and 12 years of age. 323 per 1,000 are sexually assaulted, and 22 per 1,000 are victims of complete rape.
- 1 in 4 girls is sexually abused before the age of 18.
- 1 in 6 boys is sexually abused before the age of 16.
- The most common age when sexual abuse occurs is between 8 and 12.
- More than 90% of all sexual abuse victims know their attacker. Nearly 50% of the perpetrators live within the same household.
- The U.S. has the highest number of rapes in the world (among the countries that report statistics).
- 74% of all abducted children are murdered within three hours of the kidnapping.
- The average child molester will molest 50 girls before being caught.
- Molesters who target boys will molest 150 victims before being caught. Additionally, he will commit at least 280 sexual crimes during his lifetime.
- Most sexual abuse occurs between the age of 7 and 13.
- Most offenders who assault children are white.
- 2/3 of all offenders who assault children were or had been married, and were more likely to have been victims of child abuse.
So there you have it, the ugly truth that no one wants to talk about.
Why don’t you take a moment to do something nice for your kids today, starting with a hug.
Sources – FBI, Crimes Against Children Research Center, and The National Sheriff’s Association (Master Deputy Mike Robertson: Crimes Against Children).
* As always, I thank the Oak Ridge Boys for all they do.